We all have been into a fight with someone we love, or even someone we hated. And there is no way avoiding saying something mean and hurtful about the other person. It is human nature that when we are hurt we want to hurt back. We need the gratification that the other person feels so terrible after we are done yelling and screaming. Even in a physical confrontation, it is hard to not hit back. So is it the right thing to do? Or should we turn the other cheek and go on with our lives. Looking at it from two standpoints, physical and emotional, I think yes turning the other cheek may be the best thing to do. 

When words turn nasty, especially with someone you are close to, it is easy to attack that person with something you know will really hit to the core. One thing I have learned while getting into a lot of fights with my parents is that you can’t take back the things you say. You can’t make them forget the painful and hurtful things you say. That will be in their head for as long as they are alive. And even if it isn’t true, they may still believe it. Even if you are raging mad, take a quick breath and go to your room. Separate yourself from the conflict and throw some things around if it makes you feel better. It is much better later that you didn’t say something that may have hurt someone you loves feelings. It is so easy to do when you are that mad.

A physical confrontation is usually a little different. It is never acceptable to bring your standards down and get into a physical fight with anyone. The best thing to do in this situation every time is to turn the other cheek. You wouldn’t want to hurt someone or have someone hurt you either. When words turn into fist throws, no one will win. It is not okay to ever put your hands on someone, even if what they say something that really makes you mad. A second of satisfaction when you are in physical altercation, can follow you for the rest of your life. 

All in all I think in either situation it would be the best thing to turn the other cheek. Avoid saying or doing something you will most certainly regret later. In my opinion when you have the strength to turn the other cheek then you are the better person. It is most certainly the more grown up thing to do.