Should lack of sexual chemistry lead to breakup?  Whether the answer to this question is yes or no, breakups happen every day because of this dilemma. It probably goes without saying that males hang their hat on sexual chemistry a little more than females, but both parties are guilty. The interesting thing about
sexual chemistry is that it can change throughout the course of a relationship.  When talking about these changes in sexual chemistry most people are going to recognize the decline of sexual p with attraction. The beautiful thing is there can also be increases in sexual chemistry as well.  Because of this the value of sexual chemistry needs to be evaluated.

Let’s assume that a male and a female meet and start to date each other. For situational purposes let’s also assume that the female is really into the male, but the male is having a hard time with the sexual chemistry that the female is sending. He likes the girl but can’t find a sexual connection. Many people might advise the male to go ahead and breakup with the girl putting a significant value on sexual chemistry. 

Early on in relationships it is harder for people to let their true personalities show due to nerves or anxieties. During this part of the relationship each
participant probably has more of a physical attraction than anything emotional.  We as human beings tend to put our guard up when it comes letting our true personality show. This generally takes time. 

Now usually one of two things happens when personalities come into play.  The attraction level towards each other either rises or falls and it can be different for each person. At this point if the personalities are liked by one of the participants then maybe the way you look at that person can change a little bit. Basically one might not have any sexual chemistry with someone until
they get to really know the other person’s personality, realize that they may
have common interest, and the sexual chemistry may change for the better.

Sexual chemistry is definitely not the most important factor when choosing a mate, but let’s not kid ourselves, it is important. Everyone should be given some time to see if that attraction inflates or deflates, but breaking up with someone solely on a lack of sexual chemistry before trying to get to know them a little better is unfair to both parties.