Personal Moral Values should not be Determined by others

Only people themselves, can determine moral values for themselves. God determines, by our actions, how life experiences have affected our standard of moral values. Nobody else has the right to stand in judgement, about our moral conduct.

People in today’s society are judgemental. They seem to want to point their finger, and whisper to their friend, about what they’ve been doing in their lives. People who do this are called gossipers. Gossipers spread judgemental stories all around their town, about people, they may not know anything about.

Setting a good example, is something everybody can do. Give advice, if you feel, no offense shall be taken. God even gives us freedom of free will. He want us to read the Bible, and be of strong moral character. God wants all his people to make their own choices. To be a good example, takes focus, in order to walk the Christian walk of faith. God never tells anyone about our moral value behavior. God is the only one that can determine what our moral conduct is all about.

Friends can help their friends, when they know they’ve been through a rough time. They can ask them, if they could use a little advice. Sound compassionate, never judgemental. Even when well meaning adults, try to help their friends, they still need to, just try to show their friends they have options. Friends should never try to make a friend feel the way they do. Being a good example to our friends, may prove to be life changing for another person. This may lead their friends to decide for themselves, about the moral values they want to portray.

If people just learn about compassion, and focus on showing others how to walk in faith, then other people’s value may change. It’ll be because they decided, to open their eyes a little further, and see for themselves, that they needed to change, in various, different ways.

People who try to force their beliefs onto others, are never going to help anyone’s moral values change. When someone trys forcing, their beliefs on to others, resentment comes into the picture. When this happens, people feel degraded, and angry. They’ll never change their thinking, unless their attitude changes first.

Free will is talked about in the Bible. God taught his people, that he’s the only the judge, that can determine whether, someone’s moral value is right or wrong. He teaches us in the Bible to be compassionate. If God’s people use this strategy, people who tend not to have high moral values, may just leave you with a smile on their face. Why! Because your example was shining brightly.

Smile somebody may be watching.