We are thankful when we are given choices to make. Difficult as it seems to make a choice, we are first grateful that we are able to make a choice. It is only difficult when we have no choices. When we understand that we can make choices, the difficulties that we think we have are simply not difficulties.

When we do not have any choices, then that is the real difficulty. This is where the differentiation is and how we approach making choices to our advantage. When we have choices to make, we are fortunate to be able to do so. It is whether the choice that we are going to make is the right choice for us. How do we know we made the right choice? This is the question we can ask ourselves. Once we are clear that we want to make the right choice so that once a decision is made, we stick to our decision.

How do we know we made the right choice? Is this choice the right one for me? These are the questions we have before we make the decision. When we are clear about what we want and that is the clarity we have, we know we can safely make a decision that is the right choice. When we have clarity, we know what feels right for us as we are using our emotions to guide us in view of this clarity we have inside us. We can ask others for opinions and advices and the decision is still ours. We make a decision based on what we think are right for us and the comfort feeling we have when we make the choice decision.

When we have sufficient information to make the decision, the best decision is made when we use our emotions to guide us. When we feel happy about the decision we made, then it is the right decision. We may not know immediately whether the decision made will swing in our favor and sometimes after we made the decision, we receive comments that may make us regret our decisions. It is this time that we must stand firm on our own beliefs as we have gone through the process of weighing the alternatives and most of all, we made the decision based on our own emotional guidance system. When we are easily swayed by others, this is the time we find that it does not help us to listen to others but cripple us in the way we think for ourselves.

Once we find we have made the correct choice based on what we know best at the time and our own emotions, it is the right decision. This way of making a decision is based on our own intuition as we have an inbuilt capability within us which is frequently ignored by many. It is our higher self at work and all we need to do is to tap on this unique capability within us.