Defining what makes a good person is an interesting proposition. It could perhaps take us one step further into the realms of self-analysis. It could, in the process make us a finer, happier and a better respected human being. So, let us think awhile and consider: What are the personal traits that set a good person apart? How would you define what makes a person good?

There are a myriad of attributes which set a good person apart from the rest. Some of these are extrinsic which he or she demonstrates by his behavior, words and actions; while others are intrinsic which shines through inadvertently through his personality and his/her ability to touch other lives, to spread goodness wherever he goes and to significantly impact all those whom one day he leaves behind.

Here below are some distinct traits to define what makes a good person:

* Honest and trustworthy

 A good person is basically honest and upright in all his interactions and dealings with others. He can be easily trusted-when he gives you his word, you know you can count on it. He lives by a set of ethical conduct, which makes him dependable and a joy to be with.

* Caring and compassionate

A good person inevitably exudes warmth wherever he goes. He is caring and compassionate with his family, friends, colleagues, neighbors and indeed, all those whom he comes in contact with. He demonstrates kindness, generates mutual love and respect, and is ever ready to extend compassion to those in need.

* Courteous and polite

A good person is habitually courteous and polite in his behavior. He respects the opinion of others and does not thrust his own. He has good inter-personal skills, he listens to others viewpoints and is considerate of others feelings. He avoids being judgmental and is never harsh in his comments. These qualities of good manners arising from a good heart, wins him the love and respect of those around him.

* Well-balanced

A well-balanced personality aptly defines a good person. Having mastered control over his emotions, he remains calm in crisis and acts in a civilized manner even under trying circumstances.  In the face of danger, he is quick to act with courage and fortitude. He could be outspoken but never rude. He is always tender with children and the aged; sympathetic to the weak and destitute.

* Conclusion

By giving his time and valuable attention, a truly good person innately makes someone else’s day happy and worthwhile. He believes in the maxim “Those who bring sunshine in the lives of others, cannot keep it from themselves.” By making a habit of giving joy to others, he creates an inner wealth for himself. To him, kindness and love come effortlessly.

In closing, let us recall the words of Abraham Lincoln, “When I do good I feel good; when I do bad, I feel bad and that is my Religion.”