Amish Etiquette

A visit to Amish country can be an educational experience for those who have never been, but for those who regularly visit local produce stands or businesses that are Amish run, may know a few things about proper etiquette when visiting the Amish. A statement from a Lancaster County, Pennsylvania brochure sums it up nicely, “While you talk and mingle with the Amish, please remember that they are not actors or spectacles, but ordinary people who choose a different way of life.”

If you are in the mood to do a little shopping while visiting Amish country remember that many of the Amish run businesses will not be open on Sunday’s, so plan your trip accordingly. Buggies; you will see many of them and there are also basic rules to follow when driving behind a buggy. Horse drawn buggies do not move very quickly and if you want to pass a buggy it is advisable to give the horn a short toot so as not to scare the horses as you come around. Caution is needed at night as buggies do not have headlights although some may have a light of some kind.

Do not point, gawk or stare at the Amish, this is highly disrespectful not only to the Amish, but anyone. Due to religious and cultural reasons the Amish will avoid as much contact as possible with “outsiders” as the Amish are a very private people. It is important to remember never to enter private property without permission and never feed or pet the Amish’s horses especially if they are tied to a rail or a buggy, these are working animals. Also photographing the Amish is considered an unacceptable act of pride and is not allowed.

Taking pictures of the Amish themselves is not allowed in most areas, but some Amish will allow pictures of their farms or horses and buggies. Permission is hard to attain though as most Amish are unapproachable. A head nod is often the only sign of recognition from the Amish on occasion, though you will find that some Amish appear more approachable than others. If this is the case, during your visit if possible, speak to a male first, this is out of respect for their religion.

It is important to remember that the Amish are the same as anyone else, they just live their lives by a more strict set of rules than others may. Another important thing to remember is that if you are going to be visiting try not to wear revealing clothing such as short shorts or belly shirts, this is offensive to the Amish and should be avoided if possible. Visiting Amish country is a really great way to see some of the best unspoiled areas of the country and to pick up some of the best food and crafts you will ever find.