When you think of France, what’s the first thing that comes to mind? The number one answer is Paris. Everyone dreams of one day seeing the Eiffel Tower, but only a lucky few get that opportunity. Still, just in case you are one of those few, learning more about the French customs and etiquette will lead to a more profound experience.

Elegant dining, and delicious food selections are well-known amongst the French culture. People love to cook in France, and pay high attention to detail, when preparing their dishes. The majority of their meals are made from fresh ingredients, which are grown locally.

The French are most famous for their ties to love and desire, having been referred to as hopeless romantics for years, when in reality, they have a more plausible tactic, when it comes to love and marriage. Families within the French culture, traditionally consist of few children, and each member has specific obligations.

People in France love their privacy, and although they are incredibly friendly to strangers, real friendships and strong family bonds are when they are most likely themselves. Just like families within the French culture, friendships also come with certain obligations. Close friends and families in France are in constant contact with each other, sometimes on a daily basis.

When it comes to etiquette and customs in France, the traditional handshake is the most popular method of greeting. Although, friends and family members often greet each other by kissing the other one’s cheek; you would be better off sticking with the handshake.

Learning a few basic words within the French language would be beneficial as well. It is customary to say bonjour aka good morning or bonsoir aka good evening, followed by Monsieur or Madame, upon meeting someone new. You do not want to call someone by their first name, unless you have been invited to do so in France. First names are reserved for only those closest to them, such as family and friends. Whenever it comes to housing, regardless if you are staying in a motel or apartment building, greeting those around you in the same manner, is considered polite.

If you happen to be invited to someone’s house in France, make sure you’re on time. The French take being on time very seriously. If you will be attending a dinner party, sending flowers the morning of, shows appreciation and your flowers will be displayed at the party. However, when it comes to flowers pay close attention to the color and type of flower you will be sending. White lilies and chrysanthemums are used for funerals and red carnations, according to French customs signify bad will. Therefore, just to be on the safe side, picking a color other than white or red would be the best option. Make sure you dress appropriately. Fashion in France is very highly noted, and your idea of casual may differ tremendously from theirs.

Although table manners shouldn’t have to be explained, you may need to refine them a bit before dining amongst the French. Your fork should be held in the left hand, and your knife in the right, and although the meal in front of you looks appealing, you should not begin eating until someone says bon appetit’. Your hands should be visible at all times, without resting your elbows on the table. Be sure and finish your entire meal, and if you have had enough wine and do not want more, simply leave your glass nearly full.

Although the French customs and etiquette seem a little intimidating, learning more about them prior to your visit, is key to having a memorable and beneficial vacation or get away.