The most gorgeous person you have ever seen can also be the biggest jerk to be around. So, if you want to see beautiful people, turn on a soap opera. In the real world, it does not matter how someone looks if they are a bore or lacks the social skills needed to mingle and hang out with people. This writer doesn’t not care if you look like the hunchback of Notre Dame if you can make her laugh and have manners. In reality, the nice guy does get the girl.

Some of the most unattractive people have beautiful personalities that shine so bright that it over-shadows their unfortunate looks, and when you establish a friendship or any type of relationship with the person, you then see their true beauty. Many times the individuals that spend hours styling hair and caking on makeup often lack the social skills and grace to establish lasting friendships and relationships. 

Looks are important because if you feel like you look your best then you are more confident and your true personality will shine through. It all comes back to personality in the end. No one wants to be around the beautiful witch because no one wants to be treated like yesterday’s garbage and just because you were blessed with good looks doesn’t give you a right to act ugly. When a person acts ugly then that shines through as well and takes away from their physical beauty.

So, it is important to take care of yourself mentally as well as physically. How you take care of yourself also goes back to your personality. The qualities in you that makes you take care of yourself shows what type of person you are too. The key is not to become so obsessed with looks that you lose a sense of the really important things in life. 

How you treat others is how others will treat you. It doesn’t matter if you have straw hair and a gap-tooth smile. If you have inner beauty then you will be more accepted and your friendships and relationships will thrive. Even the ugly cat at the pound will get adopted if she purrs when you pet her and exhibits those endearing qualities.  It is even more evident today in the world of plastic surgery and HD TV that how a person looks doesn’t mean much if they are truly ugly on the inside.