In bygone days, respecting and appreciating the elderly was a way of life. Whether by economic need or desire, several generations often lived in the same house. The most elderly were the most revered and respected. Their opinions and views were sought out by the younger members of the family. And even if their advice was not followed to the letter, they were at least included in the decision making process, making them feel like a valued member of the family.

Today a senior member of the family is lucky to be included in any discussion, even ones concerning where they might want to live or any changes in their lifestyle. Most have devoted their entire lives to their families and deserve to be treated accordingly.

Unfortunately many elderly laid the groundwork for how they are now treated, by not showing proper concern and respect for their aging parents. In the not too distant past, to disrespect your elders would have been met with swift retribution by the family and the community in general.  If a senior has not brought their children up to respect and show appreciation for the elderly, it stands to reason that with each new generation, less and less concern and appreciation will be afforded them.

Their knowledge and work ethic is what has made this country strong. They have given their time and nurturing to a society that is beginning to forget the sacrifices they have made.

With the coarsening of our society has come the disrespect for our elderly population. Whether you are religious or not, consider the fact that when prayer was taken out of schools, a certain element of regard for our fellow man might have gone with it. This statement might be contentious for some, but give it at least passing consideration.

According to the U.S Census Bureau, the elderly population increased eleven fold between 1900 and 1994; the non elderly increased only three fold. In this century, the rate of growth of the elderly population, (persons 65 years of age and over) has exceeded the growth rate of the population of the country as a whole. The oldest of the old (persons over 85 years of age) is projected to be the fastest growing part of the elderly population.

Therefore, it is imperative that we learn from out mistakes of the recent past and return to the days when our elderly were considered as a treasured resource, not something to be disdained and hidden away from public view.