Too often a public restroom can be an unpleasant place to visit. Careless behavior causes some of the problems. We can all try to leave one in as good (or better) shape than we found it. It will be much nicer for the next person.

Usually one doesn’t talk to or make eye contact with others in the restroom. If waiting in line, one can make conversation about women’s restroom lines. If at a fair, event or festival, it is acceptable to chat about the event or the weather as well.

Check into the stall first to see that it is acceptably clean and that it has toilet tissue. If there is a choice of stalls, don’t take the handicapped one. Leave it for someone who really needs it. If there’s a line, then all stalls are used.

Don’t hang a purse from the hook on the stall door. This makes it accessible to a thief reaching over the top of the door. Some stalls provide a shelf to place a purse on.

When leaving the stall; make sure the toilet is flushed, that all the drips on the seat removed (use some toilet tissue), that all trash is placed in the bin. Do not put tampons, diapers, or other objects into the toilet. Put those into the trash bin. Don’t forget your purse and coat.

Do you really need to chat on your cell phone while using the toilet? I’m sure the person on the other end can hear the bathroom sounds of flushing toilets, etc. Besides everyone in the restroom probably can hear your conversation. Wait for later.

Wash your hands with soap and water. Try not to splash all over the place. Use the air dryer or paper towels to dry your hands. Don’t grab the exit door with wet hands. Before throwing the paper towel into the trash bin, use it to wipe up around the sink you just used. Also use it to pick up paper towels left by others on the floor. The place looks better already.

Don’t hog the mirror or block access to a sink or towel dispenser if the restroom is crowded. Do what you need to do and leave.

Take a minute to report to someone if the restroom has problems (out of toilet paper, backed up toilets, etc.). You don’t need to spell it out, just say, “the ladies room needs attention.” It can’t hurt to compliment staff on an exceptionally clean and well-appointed restroom. It might incite them to keep up the good work.

If you sense hostility in a public restroom, leave immediately. You may have interrupted a fight or drug deal.