How has the Sexual Revolution Affected the Divorce Rate
The Beat Generation was at its peak, the protest of the Vietnam War was in full swing, music was changing, and the mindset of American teenagers were at a new cycle of social normality. The 1960’s is largely associated with the beginning of the sexual revolution, or sexual liberation. Homosexuality was becoming more acceptable – although still largely argued, threatened, and pushed under the carpet – and orgies were as common as a trip to the local market. Monogamy was less and less understood and the term “casual sex” was a pleasant vocabulary word; people were starting to experience sexuality in a whole new light with minimal restrictions. The taboo of sex was issued a new title – “fun.”
Up to this point in American history sex and divorce was kept within the household; marriage was a community get-together but after that the life of the family was left within the four walls. Divorce wasn’t even an option except for extreme cases – infidelity, violence, abandonment, etc. After the 60’s, divorce, along with sex, was more open, however, to state that there is a direct correlation between the sexual revolution of the 60’s and the increase of divorce rate is a bit short-sighted.
Life expectancy has been increasing since the dawn of man. During the 50’s, marriage for “life” was on average 25 years as life expectancy was approximately 50 years of age. Now, life expectancy has jumped to approximately 75 years of age, which means marriage for life is far more than 25 years. So it was perfectly agreeable to marry someone, and be with them solely, for 25 years. However, 50 years or so is much longer and much harder. To some this feat is easily attainable and wanted; to others, a nightmare, and they fall to the pressure – thus a divorce. Other factors, such as stronger independent women and more alternatives also lend a helping hand.
The sexual revolution certainly lent its two cents to higher divorce rates though. People were experimenting with many different types of people - finding likes and dislikes, and similarities and contrasts with partners; people didn’t want to settle down and give themselves to one person. Sexual freedom and sexual acceptance was running rampant in the hearts of Americans – Peace and Love.
The 1960’s directed the country into a whole new path. Social norms were being tested and transformed, and American culture was adapting a carpe diem sense of living. Divorce may have increased, and that’s never a good thing, but so was the youth mentality and that always comes with its hidden directions.
